a word everyone needs to know... and use more often

Recently, my good friend Jennifer and I have been, how should I say, unlucky in love. We have come in contact with men who we have decided can be best described as "triflin'". Upon further thought, we realized that we don't exactly know what the word 'triflin' means, so I thought perhaps some investigation was in order to ensure that these men in fact are what we are claiming them to be. When looking up slang words there is simply no better place to go than urbandictionary.com. So here goes.

Trifling:
1. (adj.) Describing a situation, person, or event that is pathetic.
2. shady, not right

Yep. I think that sounds about right. Just thought everyone should know.